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偶遇贾德奎，在今天来学校的地铁上。
他算是lx最好的老师之一
轻松高分学得到东西，人见人爱，快赶上人民币了。
教金融的，安泰毕业。
也算我第一次手机发文。

随着人民生活水平的提高，基尼系数的降低，可支配收入的增加…（枪文）

全民单反潮已经开始了，太多人想买，也有太多人不知道两者有什么区别。

写个普及文。

单反有大光圈。

大光圈的优势就是景深（就是背景虚化变得非常容易）

如下图所示：

大光圈另外一个优势是在昏暗的地方，快门可以加快，表现在照片上就是不会糊。

单反镜头可以换。

你可以换成鱼眼镜头，长焦镜头（能拍很远的地方），甚至LOMO镜头

鱼眼镜头，如图所示：

所见即所得，低噪点。

往往普通相机拍出来的感觉就是相机拍出来的。

而单反呢，感觉是自己眼睛看出来的感觉。

普通相机拍出来的夜景常常模糊（因对焦或者抖动），而单反能拍出你要的感觉。

单反充满创意。

你可以用单反的B门（长时间曝光，单反能控制快门速度）拍夜景,就是那种车水马龙如流光的感觉。

单反对大的优势在于手动，你能控制光线的明暗、景深的深浅、曝光长短…等等

能控制的元素越多，创意也就越多。

现在知道了么？

江湖流传：无欲则刚
说的是人抱着无所谓的态度，谁也就不能伤害他。
于是乎，江湖的感情专家们总把这句话作为疗伤的狗皮膏药。
一传十，十传百，似乎人人就在这样一剂又一剂的膏药中变得冷血，不会恨不懂爱。
我们谁也做不到，虽然偶尔自我感觉似乎对这一点得道成仙，其实只是一时的错觉。
又有恋爱砖家说：不用心追才能追到女孩子。意思是动心了，必方寸大乱。
要懂得奇技淫巧，女人才能手到擒来一般。
就这样，资本主义奉行的：自私有利于社会，因为自私的外部效应很强大。

很多青年男女就这样走上了我自私我快乐的征途。

光阴飞梭，回眸一望，留下了一个又一个别人称道而自我心碎的“战绩”。

到头来觉得似乎自己只是个没有齿轮的机器。

人和机器的最大区别在，我们会伤心，因为我们有用良心。

无心人的落寞你不会看到，让这样的人成为你的目标，你的生活也就废了…

不过再低潮的自己要一直记得：善待自己，你不知道什么时候别人会恋上你的笑。

不要让任何事成为你的绊脚石，垫着它，踩得更高，那样才更有意思。

这篇废话送给你，也送给最近诸事不顺的自己。

在朋友的博文里看到的，特意转来。
一向喜欢她的文笔，才女佳人，笔触细腻而有质感。
又是那样的透彻。

一个朋友跟我抱怨：最近有点烦有点烦。一个“四不男人”让她好纠结好纠结。

可怜我只听过七不规范，还没听过四不男伴。

你不知道么？四不男人就是不主动不拒绝 不承诺不负责。

她是美容师。他是发型师。

他们来自同一个小城。都在陌生的上海打拼浮沉。

她在城市的这一头呵护女孩的皮肤。他在城市另一头操持女孩的头发。

他每天工作超过12个小时。她一周只有一天休息。

他们中间的距离远到连他们的顾客都没有交集。

他们的工作多到让他们爱不起来这个行当。

替客人做了一天的美容。她回家再也懒得关心自己的毛孔有没有变大。

闻了一天的欧莱雅。他从来不理会自己半年前染的头发有没有掉色泛黄。

他比她大两岁。她才刚刚开始工作。他已经晋级资深。

他的工资很可观。她的收入还很微薄。

他们三年前第一次交谈。1096天的不咸不淡。

她喜欢他。

他说，明天我休息。

她说，那明天我也休息吧。

你明天想干吗。

他说，我明天想来找你。

但是我很累。可能就不来了吧。

她忍不住说，那我来找你吧。

他说，你要是很累也好好休息，不要过来吧。

这不是她想听到的话。

她希望他说，再累也想见你。

他没有。

她说，他从来不会给她主动打电话。

她打电话过去，他要是漏接，一定会回电。

她若是发短信说心情不好，他一定会立刻打个电话过来。

她一直希望他能常到自己工作的店里看望自己，让小姐妹都瞧瞧。

他只来过三次。虽然他下班就不想再碰头发，那次却耐心地替店里所有的小姐妹的头发都打理得无比妖娆。

小姐妹围着他笑。她好骄傲。

她很感动。她对他好。他却叫她不要。

她不知道如何是好。如果等他主动，她可能要等到老。她若不甘心，采取主动，他不会不要，但是也不会愿意和她牵得太牢。如果她有什么，他可能会直接消失掉。也许他的好，永远只是小打小闹。如果她气不过要散，他不会挽留，最多只会给她一个离别的拥抱。如果就这样下去，机会会不会落跑？

四不男人。好可恨。

可是为什么恨不起来？

她问我，是不是正在打拼事业的男人，都不想太早定下来？

女人若喜欢一个人，就不需要这个男人太多的解释。她会自己替他的冷漠找借口。

我有经验。我宁愿替那个人编造一千个荒诞的理由，也不愿意接受最直白的讯号：

he doesn’t care anymore.

我看着她充满希望抬的高高的脸，我知道她希望我能附和她的观点。

我不由自主地点头。虽然我一直说清醒最好。

这个城市里，很多人都抱怨找不到好的恋人而固执地单身。

或是为曾经有过的好恋人而念念不忘

或是构想着好恋人的样子独自心驰神往

或是相信着“通过做一个好的恋人就能得到一个好恋人”而努力拚抢

究竟，谁会是赢家？

还是说两个人的感情 从来都是一个人的自说自话？

This is the text of the Commencement address by Steve Jobs, CEO of Apple Computer and of Pixar Animation Studios, delivered on June 12, 2005.

I am honored to be with you today at your commencement from one of the finest universities in the world. I never graduated from college. Truth be told, this is the closest I’ve ever gotten to a college graduation. Today I want to tell you three stories from my life. That’s it. No big deal. Just three stories.

The first story is about connecting the dots.

I dropped out of Reed College after the first 6 months, but then stayed around as a drop-in for another 18 months or so before I really quit. So why did I drop out?

It started before I was born. My biological mother was a young, unwed college graduate student, and she decided to put me up for adoption. She felt very strongly that I should be adopted by college graduates, so everything was all set for me to be adopted at birth by a lawyer and his wife. Except that when I popped out they decided at the last minute that they really wanted a girl. So my parents, who were on a waiting list, got a call in the middle of the night asking: “We have an unexpected baby boy; do you want him?” They said: “Of course.” My biological mother later found out that my mother had never graduated from college and that my father had never graduated from high school. She refused to sign the final adoption papers. She only relented a few months later when my parents promised that I would someday go to college.

And 17 years later I did go to college. But I naively chose a college that was almost as expensive as Stanford, and all of my working-class parents’ savings were being spent on my college tuition. After six months, I couldn’t see the value in it. I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life and no idea how college was going to help me figure it out. And here I was spending all of the money my parents had saved their entire life. So I decided to drop out and trust that it would all work out OK. It was pretty scary at the time, but looking back it was one of the best decisions I ever made. The minute I dropped out I could stop taking the required classes that didn’t interest me, and begin dropping in on the ones that looked interesting.

It wasn’t all romantic. I didn’t have a dorm room, so I slept on the floor in friends’ rooms, I returned coke bottles for the 5¢ deposits to buy food with, and I would walk the 7 miles across town every Sunday night to get one good meal a week at the Hare Krishna temple. I loved it. And much of what I stumbled into by following my curiosity and intuition turned out to be priceless later on. Let me give you one example:

Reed College at that time offered perhaps the best calligraphy instruction in the country. Throughout the campus every poster, every label on every drawer, was beautifully hand calligraphed. Because I had dropped out and didn’t have to take the normal classes, I decided to take a calligraphy class to learn how to do this. I learned about serif and san serif typefaces, about varying the amount of space between different letter combinations, about what makes great typography great. It was beautiful, historical, artistically subtle in a way that science can’t capture, and I found it fascinating.

None of this had even a hope of any practical application in my life. But ten years later, when we were designing the first Macintosh computer, it all came back to me. And we designed it all into the Mac. It was the first computer with beautiful typography. If I had never dropped in on that single course in college, the Mac would have never had multiple typefaces or proportionally spaced fonts. And since Windows just copied the Mac, its likely that no personal computer would have them. If I had never dropped out, I would have never dropped in on this calligraphy class, and personal computers might not have the wonderful typography that they do. Of course it was impossible to connect the dots looking forward when I was in college. But it was very, very clear looking backwards ten years later.

Again, you can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something — your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life.

My second story is about love and loss.

I was lucky — I found what I loved to do early in life. Woz and I started Apple in my parents garage when I was 20. We worked hard, and in 10 years Apple had grown from just the two of us in a garage into a $2 billion company with over 4000 employees. We had just released our finest creation — the Macintosh — a year earlier, and I had just turned 30. And then I got fired. How can you get fired from a company you started? Well, as Apple grew we hired someone who I thought was very talented to run the company with me, and for the first year or so things went well. But then our visions of the future began to diverge and eventually we had a falling out. When we did, our Board of Directors sided with him. So at 30 I was out. And very publicly out. What had been the focus of my entire adult life was gone, and it was devastating.

I really didn’t know what to do for a few months. I felt that I had let the previous generation of entrepreneurs down – that I had dropped the baton as it was being passed to me. I met with David Packard and Bob Noyce and tried to apologize for screwing up so badly. I was a very public failure, and I even thought about running away from the valley. But something slowly began to dawn on me — I still loved what I did. The turn of events at Apple had not changed that one bit. I had been rejected, but I was still in love. And so I decided to start over.

I didn’t see it then, but it turned out that getting fired from Apple was the best thing that could have ever happened to me. The heaviness of being successful was replaced by the lightness of being a beginner again, less sure about everything. It freed me to enter one of the most creative periods of my life.

During the next five years, I started a company named NeXT, another company named Pixar, and fell in love with an amazing woman who would become my wife. Pixar went on to create the worlds first computer animated feature film, Toy Story, and is now the most successful animation studio in the world. In a remarkable turn of events, Apple bought NeXT, I returned to Apple, and the technology we developed at NeXT is at the heart of Apple’s current renaissance. And Laurene and I have a wonderful family together.

I’m pretty sure none of this would have happened if I hadn’t been fired from Apple. It was awful tasting medicine, but I guess the patient needed it. Sometimes life hits you in the head with a brick. Don’t lose faith. I’m convinced that the only thing that kept me going was that I loved what I did. You’ve got to find what you love. And that is as true for your work as it is for your lovers. Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle. As with all matters of the heart, you’ll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on. So keep looking until you find it. Don’t settle.

My third story is about death.

When I was 17, I read a quote that went something like: “If you live each day as if it was your last, someday you’ll most certainly be right.” It made an impression on me, and since then, for the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: “If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?” And whenever the answer has been “No” for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something.

Remembering that I’ll be dead soon is the most important tool I’ve ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything — all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure – these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.

About a year ago I was diagnosed with cancer. I had a scan at 7:30 in the morning, and it clearly showed a tumor on my pancreas. I didn’t even know what a pancreas was. The doctors told me this was almost certainly a type of cancer that is incurable, and that I should expect to live no longer than three to six months. My doctor advised me to go home and get my affairs in order, which is doctor’s code for prepare to die. It means to try to tell your kids everything you thought you’d have the next 10 years to tell them in just a few months. It means to make sure everything is buttoned up so that it will be as easy as possible for your family. It means to say your goodbyes.

I lived with that diagnosis all day. Later that evening I had a biopsy, where they stuck an endoscope down my throat, through my stomach and into my intestines, put a needle into my pancreas and got a few cells from the tumor. I was sedated, but my wife, who was there, told me that when they viewed the cells under a microscope the doctors started crying because it turned out to be a very rare form of pancreatic cancer that is curable with surgery. I had the surgery and I’m fine now.

This was the closest I’ve been to facing death, and I hope its the closest I get for a few more decades. Having lived through it, I can now say this to you with a bit more certainty than when death was a useful but purely intellectual concept:

No one wants to die. Even people who want to go to heaven don’t want to die to get there. And yet death is the destination we all share. No one has ever escaped it. And that is as it should be, because Death is very likely the single best invention of Life. It is Life’s change agent. It clears out the old to make way for the new. Right now the new is you, but someday not too long from now, you will gradually become the old and be cleared away. Sorry to be so dramatic, but it is quite true.

Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma — which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.

When I was young, there was an amazing publication called The Whole Earth Catalog, which was one of the bibles of my generation. It was created by a fellow named Stewart Brand not far from here in Menlo Park, and he brought it to life with his poetic touch. This was in the late 1960’s, before personal computers and desktop publishing, so it was all made with typewriters, scissors, and polaroid cameras. It was sort of like Google in paperback form, 35 years before Google came along: it was idealistic, and overflowing with neat tools and great notions.

Stewart and his team put out several issues of The Whole Earth Catalog, and then when it had run its course, they put out a final issue. It was the mid-1970s, and I was your age. On the back cover of their final issue was a photograph of an early morning country road, the kind you might find yourself hitchhiking on if you were so adventurous. Beneath it were the words: “Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish.” It was their farewell message as they signed off. Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish. And I have always wished that for myself. And now, as you graduate to begin anew, I wish that for you.

Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish.

Thank you all very much

夜静相思，非相思某人，而是相 思。

无意去了上海名主持周瑾的Blog，这主持人大大咧咧，时常眉开眼笑，但感觉自然而自我，不像主持人zhuzhen，像个小丑的笑。

地址在此黏上http://blog.sina.com.cn/u/1263989463

最近有朋友在看《东京爱情故事》，空间贴了它的钢琴曲，所以顿然发现相当好听，一向喜欢能让人顿然安静的钢琴声。推荐。

运动很重要，不光像广告词说的那样什么什么生命在于运动，平衡心态也都靠他。好久没游泳了，找个伴真不简单。

还是喜欢wordpress作日志系统，简单，界面友好，很重要点有垃圾评论过滤，太棒了。

会整理内务的男人绝对是稀有动物，至少心思细腻的让我本人是无法接受的。至少我和老爸不是这样的男人，都不记得席子在哪。

其实大家都很忙，很累。愿意花点时间给对方，是件很值得珍视的事情。

笑话一句：我爸面对我发胖一事发表了看法：没有韩红的命，还得了韩红的病。

李敖挺嘲的，不过一直给我的感觉是只能听他的讲座听一刻钟，多了你就会倦，可能是感觉太愤青。

不过确实是个大才子，北大毕业，敢作敢当，中文顶好，书没少读。

没有人能随随便便成功，个年头有两种人，从来也就这两种人：

装B的不懂装懂，整天都是愤青的签名。

装SB的，其实天天用功努力的很，但是从来不说。

身边就有这么一号人。人人说他是聪明，真的懂了的人知道聪明人不太多，他不笨，但是绝对用功。

翻看那孩子的CPA书，侧页上面已经黑了，虽然没什么笔记，不过千万不要被因此蒙蔽。他题目从来做草稿纸上，做完就扔。

努力的不留下痕迹。要是再加上谦虚的性格，恐怕这样的人世界上也不多了。真可谓德才兼备了。

CPA税法老师说最难的也就是增值税出口退税那个档次，你如果仔细研读就知道，其实还好。

某人说：“法文学起来难？有中国汉字难么？”

用功这事情花时间进去结果都是一样的。

关键是静下心，浸润进去。

明显我说的是废话，不过多少人真正用心做？

精于心，简于形。

如人饮水，冷暖自知。

都是为了一张纸。

很久不来，因为一段时间来总觉得无话可说。

小时候我们总是不懂装懂。
到达了我们却装作不懂。
看穿不要点穿成了生存规则。
不过兄弟和朋友间要想有真感情，看穿还需点穿。

3G的资费真的不是一般的贵。
几M的流量收的是2G的价格。
按3G的速度还不几分钟就用完？
初期用花就好像中国电信那时刚装电话一样，属于赞助。费用极高，后期无回报。

往事不要再提，人生几多风雨。
人生那些说来简单的道理却要我们用一辈子的时间去真切感受。

摄影师的职业有个优势，他能近距离接触主角。
人脉也许广于常人。
就好像某老师调侃剃头师傅，别看职位不高，和达官贵人私交可都不止一般的好。
我摄下你们的快乐，你们下次借的拍下我的感觉。

不喜欢可以催人泪下的场景。
因为泪无非是遗憾，感动的情愫。
那太私人。
上次参加了个讲座，要你黑板上写下所有重要的人，10个，然后一个个擦去，结果发现你最重视的人。一个个就这样在我身边哭了开来。我来开了…
用哭的精力去做珍惜的事吧，别去用来挥洒懊悔的情绪。
过去的就都过去了，只是留在了回忆的一个角落。

麻木和坚强很多时候变成了一个东西。
你能分清么？

昨日，约上初中同桌好友去老学校走了趟。期间另一位同学从附近的初中聚会赶了过来。

大家都半个事业有成。

同桌L，师大心理系，预备出国留学，或心理硕士或神学。

后来者Y，上师大，目前在东方卫视任编导，不出意外等三年到五年变成为未来编导。按她的话，已经工作了四年。

另一人X，即将扑美斯坦福攻读物理，清华毕业。

还在聚会那的几位也混的一点不差。

足球男Z，艺术专业，自信而风趣。

自行车男L，几点专业，玩Band，前者Y还为她拍了newsreel。

老师见各位有所成就，看得出喜上眉梢。

英语老师H，风趣的说：他们以后赚好钱，你就来做税收筹划。你看，现在生意都已经有了！

出门靠朋友。他们既是你的伙伴又是你的人脉。

朋友要多联系，无论有事没事。用一颗真心。

两者从来都是相互的，不为  什么，人在哪里，混在哪里！